Modest Dress Through The Week - Monday

Back to work today, and the outfit that seemed to be the most comfortable is actually non-Goodwill. The top is a linen blend sweater with a tank top underneath. The skirt is a light-weight brown “swirly” cotton with small flowers embroidered on it. My scarf is handmade out of a cotton voile print cut into a triangle and hemmed. This type of fabric is so soft and light, that I hardly know I’m wearing anything on my head! I tied it in theclassic style.

I am showing off my table skirt, finally attached. It comes in two parts so I can take off one side where the litter box is hiding. I’ll post more about how I made the skirt latter. :)

Happy Blogoversary!

cherry-blossom.jpgThis is my one year blogging anniversary! I am excited to still keep writing about and helping ladies in head covering issues. May God continue to teach and guide me in the coming year. Amen.

[My blogoversary happens to coincide with the cherry blossom festival in Washington, D.C. I loved seeing the trees bloom around the reflecting pool near the Jefferson memorial!]

Real Food Conversations

cows.jpgA short diversion today from the Through the Week in Modest Dress [I will post today's outfit this evening] to discuss some confluences of conversations I’ve overhead or read recently about food.

I watched two news stories from my local ABC affiliate about rising diesel prices last week. They started off with a rumored trucker’s strike on April 1st (or somewhere around that day) in protest to higher than expected diesel costs. Many independent truckers are thinking about just hanging up their CB for good. This is not wholly unexpected, really, if you think that most of our consumer goods are trucked around, even freak’n spinach salad mixes. But I digress from the news story.

The next story aired after the diesel strike was segued into with the thought, “How will this affect our food, or our farmers?” They interviewed the county Ag extension folks and an actual farmer. They all said they can’t “strike” from farming because the cows would starve. Huh, do they mean all the cattle on pasture or the poor sots in feedlots? So the farmer bemoaned the high fuel costs with a shoulder-shrug. “Without cheap diesel, I can’t get my products to the wholesale market.” The Ag Rep gave the trite line about how farmers should receive more money from the government so they could continue farming in the same way.

Next conversation occured between my Philipino co-worker and a student from the Carribean. They were comparing all the wonderful tropical fruits from their respective home countries. Boy, I was jealous as they described mangoes so honey sweet that it hurt your teeth! Food was purchased fresh every day at the markets; they hardly ever ate reheated or frozen leftovers. Here in the States, “everything is fried” and they can’t go pick fruit just anywhere. No wonder my co-worker is battling type-2 diabetes.

This morning I read a chapter from The One Straw Revolution by Masanobu Fukuoka. [One of my favorite-ever books!] Here is what jumped out at me:

The other farmers in my neighborhood realize that they are working very hard only to end up with nothing in their pockets. The feeling is growing that there is nothing strange about growing natural food products, and the producers are ready for a change to farming without chemicals. But until natural food can be distributed locally, the average farmer will worry about not having a market in which to sell his produce.

As for the consumer, the common belief has been that natural food should be expensive. If it is not expensive, people suspect that it is not natural food. One retailer remarked to me that no one would buy natural produce unless it is priced high.

I still feel that natural food should be sold more cheaply than any other. Several years ago I was asked to send the honey I gathered in the citrus orchard and the eggs laid by the hens on the mountain to a natural food store in Tokyo. When I found out that the merchant was selling them at extravagant prices, I was furious. I knew that a merchant who would take advantage of his customers in that way would also mix my rice with other rice to increase the weight, and that it, too, would reach the customer at an unfair price. I immediately stopped all shipments to that store.

If a high price is charged for natural food, it means that the merchant is taking excessive profits. Furthermore, if natural foods are expensive, they become luxury foods and only rich people are able to afford them.

I will never enter the Health Food Store with the same mindset again.

Do you see the dichotomy? Local farmers are languishing because they depend on national wholesalers and fluctuating fuel prices. We are dependent on the retailers to bring the food from the wholesalers to us. All the while, we are getting royally screwed both in the quality and cost of our daily bread.

Local, good quality food should be cheap enough for Wal-Mart Moms. I don’t want to pay $10 for an on-sale Fran’s Fryer frozen chicken. I don’t want to pay $8 for ‘organic’ milk from cows 800 miles away. And I certainly don’t want to pay $3 for 5 pounds of flour from wheat that could have been milled down the street and grown 5 miles from here.

The ‘natural foods’ vendors are not doing us any favors, at all. They are just the same mask-and-gun middlemen like the yellow-smiley faced dudes. What we really need are more good “do-nothing” farmers, small butchers, grain mills, dairies, bakers, and local markets!! And fast…

Modest Dress Through The Week - Sunday

Welcome to my Modest Dress through the Week series! You will see what I wear to work and on the weekend. Best of all, almost all of what I wear comes from Goodwill or is of my own sewing talent.

For Sunday worship I wore my blue flowered gown with matching long black boots and a snood made by a Quaker Friend of mine. The dress and boots are courtesy of Goodwill. My church has a set of these fancy tables in the lobby where folks like to have coffee and donuts before the service.

Links on Friday

Here are some excellent articles/blog posts for your weekend reading pleasure:

Tonight I will post a photo of myself in my work clothes…been meaning to do that, in case you all were interested? Even better, how about I do a “Through the week in modest dress” series?

Go Cougs!

They are slow, methodical, and play as a team. Watch out, Tar Heels, you have met your match!

Resonating with Verbal Pet-Peeves

There are three current American English speech patterns that drive me batty:

RESONATE. If I open a magazine or read one more blog post with that word used in it to describe anything beyond a musical instrument, I WILL scream. Human beings are not tuning forks!!!

“How are you?”, more specifically spoken when walking past another person. Gone are the days when a “Hi!” and a smile were enough when passing stranger and friend alike. Now many people skip the Hello and go straight to “how ya doin?” You inquire into another’s well-being only if you are prepared to stop and expect an answer. I find it more kindly and polite to just wish someone a Good Morning/Afternoon/Evening and continue on to our respective destinations.

Best, when used as a sign off on an e-mail. Example, “Best, Anna —-” Best what? What could they be wishing me? Is it an open ending to use in both nasty-grams and condolence letters?

There…I feel much better.

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Tuesday Twitter

We had a full and fun spring break! As you’ve already seen, St. Francis accompanied us on a hike up Elk mountain in the Wichita Wildlife Refuge. His next adventure might be to a military base…how ironic. ;)

I did some sewing and finished a project…which I should post the photos of it. Mental post-it note.

I baked cinnamon spice oatmeal muffins (recipe of my own creation!) I did lots of cleaning. The apartment still looks like a rat’s nest, but at least it looks like an obsessive-compulsive rat family lives here.

We bought new cell phones. They were buy-one, get-one free. So I have a green version and Jeff has a black and blue version. They have a nifty slide out QWERTY typing pad, for all that texting we do. Uh, we actually don’t text all that much but we could text like pros now.

We ate ice cream. Chocolate Bunny Tracks. And a Cadbury cream egg. Amazingly, I have not budged from 125 pounds. Is this the new pre-middle age set point? We shall see. I walked to work today and hope to walk at least twice more this week.

March Madness is in full swing. We camped out in the bedroom with the tv dragged in so the bunny ear antennas can get CBS. Jeff’s team, the Washington State Cougars, will play the North Carolina Tar Heels later this week. I somehow agreed to spend the evening in a sports grill so we can watch it on big screen and without fuzziness. If it weren’t for the Cougars, I probably would have carried on my March without any madness, thank-you-very-much. That team is just so darn good at what they do, I can’t help myself.

Covering for Beginners - What

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Now that you have decided when to start covering, what do you wear?

If you have clicked through my blog at all, you will see that I have worn just about every type of covering available on the market over the past year. Some are of my own manufacture, some have been gifts to me from other sisters, and most of them I ordered from various vendors. Even after all this time and experimentation, I have not settled into one particular style. One facet of any covering I wear, however, that I have settled on is to have at least 80% of my hair/head covered.

This brings us to the balancing act between the symbolism of a Christian covering and the modesty aspect. If you are comfortable with having a small triangle of lace pinned to your hair everyday to satisfy the symbolism, then that is covered enough. If you are like me, I find that my hair is one of my best features. Men really are attracted to long, healthy hair! Since my hair is a special thing for my husband to see, I cover it up. That simple.

A second consideration is whether or not you desire some denominational identification “tag”. The most common covering associated with a church is the Amish cap. They are practical, especially if you tie them under your chin, no clippies required. But, you have to be prepared for all the questions. If you are not aligned with the Anabaptist/Quaker theological tradition, I suggest staying away from caps.

The next, deeper connotations involved in choosing a covering style is the “hanging veil” versus a cap-like or snood-like covering. The Greek words detailing the NT covering used in 1 Cor. 11 describe something that hangs down or that can be wrapped around. Does this delineate the type of covering, or are the words only what Paul had to use to describe the covering? Lots to think about.

So, onto the fashion gallery of coverings:

  • A veiling, as pictured above. These require one’s hair to be pinned up and also require at least two clippies to hold it onto your hair. PrayerCoverings.com offer several versions, including one or two styles that tie under your chin.
  • The cap. I like caps, because my theology does line up with the traditional cap-wearing churches. And they do stay put without extra metal secured to my head. This is important for those living on the windy prairie!
  • Scarves. This is where your artistic/fashionable sense can shine. I love scarves for the same reason I love caps. Once you can handle tying them in the way you like, they do stay put. Tznius.com and Modest World sell the best, most beautiful scarves. I’ve also sewn some summer scarves of my own out of cotton voile.
  • Hijabs. I’ve been known to wrap my scarves into a traditional Muslim style. The look might make you feel uncomfortable in the “religious cross-dressing” category. ;) I find it rather…well, comforting and feminine.
  • Snoods offer a variation on the scarf theme. I have not worn snoods, but many ladies are dedicated snood-wearers. Modest World has a nice selection of snoods, as well as She Maketh Herself Coverings.
  • You can also find an assortment of covering styles designed for medical hair loss.

There are so many choices out there, that I am sure you will find the right balance between modesty and symbolism. Try out several different coverings at first to see what works for your family and situation. Give away the coverings you don’t use to another sister.

St. Francis…on a hike!

We took St. Francis for a hike on Thursday. He had a great time! These pictures will be turned into a music video of sorts.

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Jeff carried him up in my backpack. When we stopped to take photos, those passing us on the trail, stopped and asked, “Was that statue there before?” I tried not to laugh.